Re: need sum suggestions/advices
my mistake but samia less talk is nice thing bcoz its my personal experience that lot of talk before marriage create fuss for you. Like one of my friend got engaged in early age and talk with her fiance late night and then weekly meetings etc etc. But after marriage he came to me very disturbed that his spouse is not happy with her. i said why he said yaar before marriage we made many plan of loving and etc. but after marriage telling you honestly i'm not much attracted in her. I tried my best to be act as a fiance but can't. I get sleepy just 9 O clock and she complain that before you talked with me late night and now every night you don't talk with me this &that. So I mean to say its good that you are not talking with him a lot and both of you don't have great expectation between you so I hope so InshaAllah after marriage every thing will be settled down.
But one thing why he don't talk with you bcoz of his family ????