Re: need some serious guidance
We are all affected by the circumstances we are brought up in, but now you're an adult so you can control your choices you make. Have you ever watched Jon and Kate plus 8? If one was to read a script of the show, the words would sound pretty benign. But if you watch her behavior, she is very demanding even when she is like 'please' 'thank you' etc. Anyway you seem to think that a person either has to be totally meek or entirely rude...those are two extremes...one can express an opinion without rudeness. Also everything can't always be your way; make sure your husband gets to do stuff without you inputting in all the time. Anyway if your volume is just loud that's ok...i get really happy sometimes so my voice is loud like "HEYYY GUESS WHAT?? lalala" but if you're loud and inconsiderate, that's another story. Maybe imagine yourself as being followed by a camera-would you be ashamed of what's being recorded?