i totally agree wth u i remember last decemeber i went to pak both my grandmothers(nanai n dadi) passed away wth 1 day gap my parents were not able to come to pick me so my inlaws came they picked me n dropped me at my parents home it was 2 at night but situation was different
since u r married now whatever u visiting first time after marriage n huby not accompaning u still ur inlaws home is now ur home u should consider this n should go there
n seriously even i ask my parents regarding this they vl also suggest me to go to in laws first