Finally I've told my parents about him and my relationship with that "man". My parents say that I should give him a chance. The day he'll be here, they'll give him a HUGE lecture...He is really a chicken when my parents know his negative points or talk about it.....he also know my brothers...who will kill him when they'll know that he "plays" with my feelings and life!!
My parents, aunty and sister gave me advise to try for the last time...If there will be anything between us...They will stand behind me!!
SO Shall I give it a try? Even I don't want to?
And yes I'm not going to quit my job...And ofcourse I will start my study....And obviously I will move to my own house, which I will decorate within few weeks....And I love my car!! I've, Mashallah, got everything I wanted in my life!! I've got my family who stand behinds me...They also have some regrets about this ristha...But it's fate.. I can't blame them...
I felt terrible coz of him...But I think I allowed him to...I expected TOO much love, respect and careness from him...I haven't got.......Childeren?? No I don't want childeren from him!!
I want to take revenge on that B*****D.....If he comes here....He is going to be the one in the GOLDEN JAIL...NOT ME!!!! Any stupid thing he will say to me..I'll directly call my parents....He is a man who only can talk LOUDLY to his wife...BUt can't do it with others....
It's my fault that I haven't discussed everything earlier....I said some things to my mother about a month ago....My mom was so angry that she gave him a big lecture on the phone.,....and he felt soo ashamed...hahaha..I really enjoyed...
So guppies..Shall I gave him a chance?? Is it better to let every SEE that he is a animal??
I've nothing to lose I think...I feel much better now...Now that my parents know every single thing!!
Thank you all for your good advice!!!!! You all have given me strenght to tell my parents about it....
Instead of leaning on others, you need to grow a backbone yourself and walk out if you don't even want to be with this guy. Are all these people going to be living in your house with you? I don't think so.. so then what are you gonna do if it gets worse? Have your parents yell at him through the phone.. um ok, he's not 10.