"I want to take revenge on that B***D"
If it wasn't for all the foul language and talk of wanting revenge, I would take your side 100% without looking at all the facts! Hehe! Seriously though, you keep using so much foul language about your Husband. I can understand how distressed you must be, but try to look like the mature adult in this marriage. Lol! I am trying to see things from both sides. It could be possible that you are portraying your husband in such a way so that others hate him so much, as family issues are often exaggerated! Just ask any DIL about issues with her MIL and how many lies are created in the procedure! Lol!
You have been continually defending your parents and their decision to get you married to their choice, so we can’t blame your parents entirely. I think you should stop grousing, give your Husband another chance and put up with the Husband you allowed your parents to choose for you, as no one put a gun to your head to marry him! If that was the case or you felt forced, then why have your parents giving you so much liberty to live alone and that too abroad? You said yes to marrying him three times knowing fully well how educated he was. But I don't think education has anything to do with this as I have seen educated ppl' who behave like they are completely uneducated!!!!
Using your own words in an earlier post, your Husband is not a farista but just* a human being*. So learn to live with his flaws and keep reminding yourself he is not a farista.
If your husband had a best friend, who was a girl and wanted to marry him – then you too would feel jealous.
There are two sides to every story. How much have you been willing to compromise for him? Do you have a temper you cannot control? Have you ever been rude to your MIL? Have you used the same foul language here to describe your Husband to your Husband's face? Have you ever belittled him about his education? Have you ever reminded your Husband that you earn more than him? Have you ever encouraged him to enrol into school again? Do you get on with your MIL? Are you always respectful to your SIL's and FIL etc? You see there are two sides and we only know one. Mostly always stories are **exaggerated **and I am sure your Husband's story is completely different. Maybe he is feeling so hurt and depressed too at his kismet?!
You should get legal advice asap to help you sort out your marriage problems. Your lawyer, as per their area of specialization, can give you vital comprehensive and proficient advice. I suggest you also go to your GP to get referred to a marriage counselor, which could do you wonders.
Good luck.