Simmie - I'm not one to advocate the break up of a marriage, but are you absolutely certain about this? Because when you were describing all of this yesterday, this didn't sound like the sort of situation you wanted to be in any longer. You said that you didn't want to live with him, that he constantly suspects you of infidelity, that he doesn't support you financially, that his parents say bad things about you, and that you were pressured into marrying him.
You're saying you expected too much love, respect, and caring for him. I'm not certain what that means, but it appears that he doesn't give you any of those things. And a wife has every right to expect such things from her husband. It's the reason Allah commands us to be married, so that our spouses will be a source of comfort and love for us.
And as for your parents giving him a good stern lecture if he misbehaves again...Simmie, I'm not trying to insult your parents, but so what? What earthly good will that do? You said that your mother gave him a lecture a month ago and that he felt embarrassed. But that didn't stop him from subjecting you to more bad behavior when he got over his embarrassment. And is that really what you want Simmie? A marriage that barely stays together just because your parents have to give your husband a lecture every few days? I don't think you respect him very much now...but if you have any feelings of respect at all for him, do you suppose they'll stick around after the 1st, 2nd, 3rd time your parents will lecture him about treating you well? Shouldn't he already know that he's supposed to treat you well and not have to be told to do so?
You've referred to him as a "B*****D," an "animal," a "chicken," etc. So I don't think you should be asking us, I think you should be asking yourself...do YOU really want to give him a chance?