Need some advice please!

[McPendo]

Re: Need some advice please!

@Sara516

Just saw theorists post. Hey, like I said, nobody in this scenario is a bad person or undeserving of love, or deserves a lonely life…everyone deserves to be happy with their life partner.

But if you don’t wanna be with someone, you don’t want to be with them. End of story. People need to stop making others feel guilty for not wanting to marry someone they’re not excited about.

Sareh I feel that new york vibe coming off of you now I better hide :D. But I wasn’t trying to get her to feel guilty. I was trying to give others a different perspective on this. We don’t always get to hear the other side of the story properly. I felt that it was similar to what I went through. Everyone were throwing the dude under the bus for not working. It’s not always so Black and white. Times change and people change, it’s not always the same. But OP has made her decision and I support it. The dude needs a push and this is what’s going to knock him in to his senses.