Re: Need some advice please!
Pendu, the man who made it to the moon couldn’t do it without money right? The love and passion was there…but it was not enough right? It served as a starting place and a drive to get all the resources needed to accomplish this dream , no? I am sorry if I offended you. I consider you a friend and you know that, so I don’t desire hurting you…not intentionally. We both have strong and opposing opinions on the matter. I don’t think the stance of others can be called “purely” or strictly materialistic and loveless. It is not so black and white. If this guy was filthy rich but a douchebag, most folks on here would not encourage marrying him. Why? Because it’s only about money or materialism. Love should not only be expressed through words but also actions. The people most deserving of that love is our parents…the ones who sacrificed so much for us from the day we were born …more so than any boyfriend or girlfriend. And if our love cannot fulfill the basic huqooq of our parents, then how can we be strong enough to fulfill the rights and responsibilities of any other relationship. It’s something to think about. If you want to remove materialism and totally focus on love…fine, let’s do that. If I focus on just the love, I have doubts about the sincere dedication in the love OP and this guy have for one another. That’s just my opinion based on my limited understanding. Allah knows best.