Re: Need Serious Suggestions bummer
Thanks Lady Lama and Red Velvet, I'll forward these suggestions to my friend, hopefully sumthing might work out. I am also trying 2 find out some of her close friends 2 figure wat she actually wants.
n for the rest of u guys tx alot for ur input much appreciated but seriously na is it so hard to believe that for once a women can be on the wrong side of the equation? I bet if i wud hv posted sum thing similar in which the guy was abusive ev1 wud hv strtd bashing the guy left n right, no questiones asked. Is this a desi thing? thinking that in a relation ship women is always the victim??? are we as women is superior ?? I seriously dun get it na, both genders have the same capability of screwing up them selves.
as far as this case is concernd I wud like 2 belive she is a good mom coz ev mother is but she calls her own son things like a$$**** / bas*/shi** in social gatherings, wat kind of mother does that.
n for such concerns like y I dun think that the guy is wrong over here, I have been close friends with him for past 25 yrs** (n plz spare me the "a girl n guy can never b friends" lecture, I dun hv time 4 it n I dun respond 2 it v well)** I hv seen how he respects/treats his mother/sisters/cousins/female friends. I know how softspoken n non violent he is or more appropriately he was. I am witnessing how hard he's trying to still make this thing work out. If he just wanted to get away from the relationship he wud hv dun it yrs ago, no body is stopping him in doing that. It's far much easier 4 him then 2 go thru all this wat he goes thru ev day. If my spouse(to be) gives any stupid gali 2 my parents, I'll break his jaw instantly n I am a girl. He's a guy.
You know wat I think, it seems more like that the girl was forced into this marriage n she still hv some links with her past n now she's a citizen over here n she dun want 2 loose the custody of the child also so may b she's looking sum way out like. May b that's y she didn't ever said she wanted 2 come back when she was in pakistan, my friend was the one who brought her back. but this is just an assumption n I dun want 2 assume any thing.