Need Love Advice

NomiCA · January 31, 2013, 1:56pm

Re: Need Love Advice

OP,

You don’t love her because you know nothing about her personality. You haven’t even talked to her. At this stage it is just an attraction or crush. Stop seeing it as “love” and maybe you’ll calm down a bit and look at things more reasonably.

You said that you think you’ll be able to convince your parents should things progress to that stage. Desi parents get hung up over smaller issues and difference in religion is a fairly big and sensitive one. And girls generally face greater pressure from their parents and also tend to succumb to it. That said, it’ll still be a tough battle even if your own folks were to come around. Something to consider.

You’re gonna need a lot more courage later on should things develop. I guess what I’m trying to say is that aagay jaa kar tumhay ziyada himmat ki zaroorat hogi …aur tum abhi se itna dar rahay ho… woh bhi sirf us se baat karne main. Don’t go thru her friend. Involving a third party can get messy. The next time you walk past her…don’t just stare…smile and say hi/hello before you walk away. Do this a few times and then ask her a question about the class/coursework/exam…etc…and take it from there. In other words, start with small steps.

woh bechara itni lambay lambay paragraphs parh sakta to pass na ho jata??