I have been doing ACCA from an institute and i saw a girl there i fell in love with. I like to only call myself a Muslim and she is Shia i think, Doesnt matter for me but may matter for mine and her family.
Anyways i didnt even talk to her yet, I never talked to any girl and i have confidence issues. We have had so many eyelocks and i always get a feeling that she likes me too. She is more reserved than me and never talks to any boy. Its kind of impossible me to go and approach her so maybe i thought why not message her on facebook when she was away for a week from class due to an accident. But that message also reached her “Other” messages which anyone rarely reads.. Her “Add as friend” option is blocked aswell. She is the most beautiful lady of the class and a guy besides me likes her too. Actually half of the class knows that he likes her.
There is a close friend of hers, She is in the same class and her friend option is open, So i thought if i can add her friend and then approach her.
More advices from girls please. and yeah i am from Pakistan aswell and just made an account for asking this. Hopefully i ll be here for long. Failed in my 1st ACCA paper though so quiet depressed.
So should i add her friend and then approach her? Or wait for the new facebook policy which lets you message strangers for a $1 :P.
i would reccoment you to first concentrate on your studies.. n then go thru the right channel.. send ur parents to her place.. ading on fb n taking nus is something useless.. if u r really seriously
Tell her before it is to Late yaar...ek baar woh apse door ho gaye or Apne nahi Bola u will Regret
Ek larki ko woh Sacha pyar kare jishe woh pyar karti hai ishe ziada khuchnasibi nahi ho sakti so try your luck...:)
But i think Facebook is Not the right way so Think about another oppertunity
Wish u Good luck !:)
Everyone has told me that facebook is not the right way, I need a unique advice though, Its really impossible for me to go and approach her in real, I am not just made that way, Even in school i lost my first crush after i kept quiet till 5 years.
Ok so if you really love her then do not wait to approach her by any mean and as you said another one is like her too, i am assuming here that he has also positive feelings for her... ahhh u said the most beautiful lady in the class so it probably means "aik anaar 100 bemaar" try to reach her before its too late.
If i were you, i would prefer to approach her face to face and start discussing about the class about the topic or any thing else. Its super easy to talk with a girl only you need is to be respectful, be confident and try to be little bit funny to cheer her up and there you go!
PS: personal experience, i am of karachi university student ;)
I am the best looking student of the whole institute, Longest hair and kinda heroic type, All my classmates say that -__-. Girls i dont like keep staring at me aswell.
I cannot confront her and not even date, Id probably want to directly marry :
Agar aap Apne parents se Baat karo kia woh larki ke parents se Baat kare ge ??
Please Clown bhan ke Aur typical cheap harakte Kar ke nahi try karna
Istarha Aapki personality pe negative change aye ga
:)
Nooo
Aap ko agar koi Passand Ayi to Iska matlab yeh nahi that this Person is the right One 4 u....
That does Not mean that you have to Date before Marriage And Start a Relationship before lekin aapko uski personality or Charakter ke bare me Pata hona chahi Hai ...
:)
I am the best looking student of the whole institute, Longest hair and kinda heroic type, All my classmates say that -__-. Girls i dont like keep staring at me aswell.
I cannot confront her and not even date, Id probably want to directly marry :
LOL... bhai if she start liking/loving another or someone else start loving her and make a good relationship with her then apka khud ko hero samjna kuch kaam nahi aayega. well it does matter to be attractive but phr bhi...
So here's the story:
I like to only call myself a Muslim and she is Shia i think, Doesnt matter for me but may matter for mine and her family..
So I assume your family is NOT Shia? If my assumption is correct, then why don't you talk to your mother and father first and find out if they're willing to consider a Shia bahu for you. B/C if your parents are completely against you marrying a Shia girl....then what's the point in even contacting her? You clearly want her to be more than just a friend.
Try it if there is no Other Way to reach her
Inshallah sab theek ho ga
Good luck :)
Thanks, Yeah ill try it for sure because there we aint going to see each other for a while or forever now, Our classes ended and another batch will start dont know if she will even continue or not.
So I assume your family is NOT Shia? If my assumption is correct, then why don't you talk to your mother and father first and find out if they're willing to consider a Shia bahu for you. B/C if your parents are completely against you marrying a Shia girl....then what's the point in even contacting her? You clearly want her to be more than just a friend.
Yeah we are'nt. The thing isnt about only marrying, I would want to be her very good friend. And if she loves me i can do anything for her. Its to soon to even talk to parents.
My theory is, if you don't do something face to face, don't do it online. Approaching her friend doesn't sound like a very good idea to me. Girls are often jealous of each other and don't have their friends' best interest at heart. The friend may think you're interested in her, and when she realizes you want her friend, she may try to make sure you are not successful.
In any case, if you are not looking to date, then why don't you first try to find out if your family would even be ok with a shia girl? Otherwise, it's just wasted emotion and time.
My theory is, if you don't do something face to face, don't do it online. Approaching her friend doesn't sound like a very good idea to me. Girls are often jealous of each other and don't have their friends' best interest at heart. The friend may think you're interested in her, and when she realizes you want her friend, she may try to make sure you are not successful.
In any case, if you are not looking to date, then why don't you first try to find out if your family would even be ok with a shia girl? Otherwise, it's just wasted emotion and time.
Yeah, she used to stare at me aswell :| She has a boyfriend though if i am correct.
Its too soon to talk to my parents about such stuff, I am not even graduated yet. I am just 18 and i dont want to loose her.
I see…so you’ve already decided that you’re willing to go against your parents for a girl you’ve never even had a conversation with. Nice. Good luck with it all.
