If you are not allowed to talk, even when he is in your home, how on earth did you manage to have a "love" marriage to be? If he can't control his anger, you need to ask yourself if he is worth it and if you can live with this anger all your life....
we used to talk on sms first.....den love started to grow....and my family got aware of dat....so i used to talk to him from college on my friends mob.....we dnt live together...i m mentioning wen he visits my place....