Lolz.... yeah, I saw that coming and in a way you are justified, I was kinda pissed off at desi women working in the west as labelling and considering housewives as someone inferior. To clarify:
I didn't mean to generalize and apologies if I hurt someone. Ofcourse, there are lots of working women who work hard even in Pakistan and keep their modesty and their distance from men. By "enlightened women" I meant only a subclass of women who consider housewives to be of an inferior race.
I think everyone is entitled to his/her opinion, if you don't agree then please back your argument with some logical reasons instead of calling me sick. To back my argument for example, I invite you to visit a couple of software houses in Pakistan, or visit the Liberty market in the evening and you'll understand the "power" and "independance" of women.
thank you for accepting this ...
for you r point no 3. ... i said the "bad" word cuz your explicit description also pissed me off a lot ... so if you can say somethign nasty becuz you were angry ... others can too ...
aurat ki izzat apnay haath mein ... i am a graphic designer .. and i have worked in pakistan and been to such companies that you are mentioning ... its totally on the woman how she handles her relations with her co-workers ...
and i agree that there are girls with flirtatious attitude ... and there are men who love to be around such women ... but then where DONT you find such people?
girls wearing indecent stuff and going around doing monkey business i think is way better than girls in burqa going around doing monkey business ... and i have seen that a lot as well! a girl used to work at my father's office ... completely clad in burqa ... and she was quite a hard working girl .. and my father was extremely careful of girls working in his office ... and took it as his responsibility that nothing bad should happen ... and viola! one day she never went home .. ran off with her boyfriend to some other city and got married ... and her family filed a case on MY father that he is responsible for their daughter's disappearance ... luckily she was stupid enough to make a few calls to someone in the office ... and they were traced back to wherever she was .. and the FIR was canceled ...
so ... doesnt matter what you look like on the outside ... should be clean on the inside!