[quote="farrah, post:783, topic:205891"]
@ arshad5: since humans are more sophisticated and more complicated creatures than the rest, and not replicas of each other ... it wont be a problem ... because everyone is different ... and the meaning of "best for you" becomes relative then ...
p.s. yes snowy winter has a sick brain!/QUOTE]
Lolz.... yeah, I saw that coming and in a way you are justified, I was kinda pissed off at desi women working in the west as labelling and considering housewives as someone inferior. To clarify:
I didn't mean to generalize and apologies if I hurt someone. Ofcourse, there are lots of working women who work hard even in Pakistan and keep their modesty and their distance from men. By "enlightened women" I meant only a subclass of women who consider housewives to be of an inferior race.
I have seen the environment of the some software houses in pakistan and unfortunately the clothes and the flirting manner of some of the girls is quite sickening. Not to mention that its actually the man who encourage such things so yes, the blame lies on them equally if not more.
I think everyone is entitled to his/her opinion, if you don't agree then please back your argument with some logical reasons instead of calling me sick. To back my argument for example, I invite you to visit a couple of software houses in Pakistan, or visit the Liberty market in the evening and you'll understand the "power" and "independance" of women.
As long as the girl takes good care of her husband and children, she can work as Bill Gates, I don't mind. But I doubt many women can juggle so many balls simultaneously. IMHO calling me sick does not really solve the problem of leaving your kids to naukars.