Need help to save my engagement :(

Totally agree.

To the ppl who think marrying someone 'stable' is being a gold-digger, don't the men who have degrees and good jobs usually only go for well educated (or just plain beautiful) girls who usually have the potential to earn in the future as well? **

Both** sides are looking for specific traits (usually the boys side are wayyy fussier when it comes to this). U don't often hear of boys families saying they don't want a girl with a law/medicine degree either, do u>