But a non-desi non-virgin man would be ok with marrying another non-virgin. It seems to be a Muslim desi (or possibly just a general desi thing) that a man who has slept around can demand a virgin wife and is ok to not want to marry any of those he slept with. Even Arab men will often marry those non-Muslim women who they’ve commited zina with (I know of quite a few white girls who’ve ended up marrying Arab Muslims and even converted to Islam later) whilst usually a desi man will think they are sl*gs and not worth marrying.