Re: Need help concerning layna dhaina....
Omg why does the process of marriage have to be such a nightmare...augh. People are supposed to happy that they/their child is getting married, not treat it as an all expense-paid shopping spree. Such besharam people (the guys side)...I cannot believe it.
Like everyone has pointed out already, if its like this prior to the shaadi, what rediculous demands might they have later?
Take you time, do lots of dua, speak to your father - iA whatever happens/is happening has all be pre-determined by Allah so just make dua for guidance.