need help/advice

MrLibra · January 17, 2011, 9:10pm

Re: need help/advice

Ok after reading everything again my final advice is to completely INGNORE her (since your bro says talk to her yourself, your mom isnot helping either, you have been nice to her but still her behaviour is the same).

she calls you dont answer
you dont call her
dont go to her house
if she comes to your house ignore her

a point will come when she will ask you why u ingoring her (or your bros wil ask you). and then u should explain her everything in detail. (perhaps it will be a good idea if you talk her on your own without involving anyone else)

NOW SECONDLY

if you think you cant ignore her then be extra extra nice to her. for example buy her gifts…tohfe le ke jao aur tohfa dete hue kaho ke “ke yeh main apni baji ke liye laya hoon sirf aur sirf…tareef karo etc”

ignoring or being extra nice…either way will surely help. good luck

you mean buttering.
ab yehi karna paray ga, i am sure, it will work.