Re: need help/advice
yaar seriously u need to stand up for your self. if u like a girl tell your parents if they have no problems but u dont need to ask your siblings for the permission. if i was in your situation i would have only asked my parents and would have married. baat yeh hai ke agar tum abhi apne liye nahi bolo ge tou kal jo tumhari biwi ayegi tum uske ke liye bhi nahi bol sako ge.
jahan tak mera andaza hai your sis didnot get much oppurtunities (as u said) like eduaction, money etc. i’ll say take her out for dinner (just u and her) and talk to her throughly. i think mentally she is a bit lost.