I am a guy, getting engaged after Ramadan, I need guidance on ring design and possibly the sourcer/supplier of it. When replying please consider following bullets.
Design ?
How much diamonds or other stones, or gold is recommended?
I am looking for something modern with Pakistani touch in too (personally i like women wearing white gold, unlike the usual gold)
I have access to all major sourcers in europe, usa and middle east, so getting it to me in Pakistan should not be a problem.
Has she given you any hints about what she likes i.e. what stone? If she has then that's your first issue sorted. Buy it from Pakistan though due to the crazy variety which you won't find in the West in comparison. As for price you can go as high as you want pretty much, its different for everyone really. In UK for instance there were some around £300 and some double or triple that.
Maybe browse some online as well to give you an idea of what catches your eye.
The cost depends on two main factors:
- The stone: Size, cut, colour and clarity of the stone (I'm going by my own experience which was only in diamonds; I'm assuming other stones would be similar). I would suggest you pay close attention to the cut, colour and clarity of the stone. Some people go by "bigger is better", but they often end up with a 3 carat ring that looks completely fake. You want to have a good cut, because that is what gives the stone it's sparkle. Round is the sparkliest, FYI.
- Ring setting: You could go designer and spend upwards of $2000 on the setting alone. This can be as elaborate or as simpe as you want. Remember, the more you cistomize the more it'll cost. I personlaly see no value in going designer. There are tons of similar designs you can get for a quarter of the price.
Ultimately, it all depends on the girl (and your budget). I didn't want to go above 1 carat because I felt anything bigger would be too ostentatious. What have you observed about her dress style/ jewellery so far? Does she like to "bling out" or does she have a more simple taste?
When all is said and done, a ring is still just a ring. What matters more is ikhlaas and how you two get along together. Good luck with your marriage. I hope you two will have a wonderful life together (Inshallah)!
First of all, congratulations!!! In another lifetime, I worked in upscale jewelry retail - so I do know my diamonds.
I am a guy, getting engaged after Ramadan, I need guidance on ring design and possibly the sourcer/supplier of it. When replying please consider following bullets.
Design ?
The best cut, because of the proportionality of the facets is the traditional round cut diamond - it refracts light best. A diamonds sparkle. comes primarily from its cut.
How much diamonds or other stones, or gold is recommended?
Up to the buyer - bigger isn't always better. But...I think best to have a central stone and then shoulder stones if you like that look.
I am looking for something modern with Pakistani touch in too (personally i like women wearing white gold, unlike the usual gold)
*Arguably diamonds look best in white gold. White diamonds show best in white gold. Ask for platinum tips/claws - they are a lot more durable than gold. Avoid platinum bands - they get a grey-ish patina with wear and tear.
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I have access to all major sourcers in europe, usa and middle east, so getting it to me in Pakistan should not be a problem.
Needs to have that humble and mature touch.
*Look for classy, not blingy.
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How much price are we lookin at?
*Price really depends on where you're getting the diamond from. Personally, I would get a GIA-graded diamond, with the certificate (or something comparable).
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Thank you!
Do a Google primer of diamonds and learn all about cut, clarity, colour (carat, is IMO, the most subjective of the four "C's"). But...don't limit yourself to diamonds. Some women might like a coloured stone, i.e. sapphire, emerald or ruby. Buy what you think she'll like (if you can get a sense of her, maybe find out her preferences. But, insh'Allah, she'll love it, because it was a gift from you.
This is something your future wife will inshAllah wear for the rest of her life, so personally I would get her opinion. Styles vary hugely and to be honest, her usual style may not be what she wants for her ring e.g. she may wear simple jewellery but for her engagement ring she wants something a bit more show-y.
The biggest factor in the final cost of the ring are the stones. You can get a diamond solitaire of X carats (weight/size) for let's say £800 and you can get the same weight diamond for 4 times the amount. The latter diamond will be of much higher quality in terms of the cut, clarity and colour and therefore look far more impressive. By the way, when we are talking about cut, polish and symmetry are really important.
Definitely speak to your fiancé to be about this! Before my nikkah, my hubby and I didn't really discuss the rings- I assumed he would know what I want. But he ended up choosing yellow gold engagement ring and wedding band- I prefer white gold in diamonds. Anyway, I wore the rings for a year (they did look nice!) but he knew I wanted white gold so we upgraded this year (less than a year later) to white gold band and ring with bigger/better diamonds. It's better to get it right the first time- so ASK her preference.
Users above have all provided good advice regarding the 4 C's which you should definitely take into consideration. Although I am not so sure about getting a diamond ring from Pakistan- I find that they are not as sparkly as the ones purchased from other countries but this could also just depend on your jeweller.
Not sure if it’s too late but I would highly suggest doing research before buying. Don’t just go for the name brand but the quality of the stone. My personal choice is a princess cut diamond so here’s a little info on that .. https://www.diamonds.pro/truth-about/diamond-shapes/princess-cut-diamonds/ (the author seemed to be a diamond shopper for clients.. not sure how good he is)..
Bottom line is to choose something that will make you happy and least regretful. So choose whatever you like.
