Re: need advise...cant decide abt shadi:(
Not being funny but if ur Mum already said to forgive him because he's her nephew what's the guarantee she won't say that even after marriage if/when he does it again??
No offence but ur Mum doesn't exactly seem v.objective, of course there's family loyalty but really she should be looking out for ur best interests.. My Mum would never forgive a guy who was seeing another girl, no matter if he was related whilst engaged to me, esp if he proposed to her, that's like a kick in the teeth.. He still ignores u sometimes even after treating u so badly so he obviously doesn't feel much remorse or he wouldn't ignore and would treat u with more respect. Sorry but I really do think things will get worse if u go ahead and marry him, he's seen once that he can get away with it and he's prob thinking in his head that whatever happens u will never leave him. If it were u who'd been seeing another guy and had had the nerve to propose to him he'd prob have dumped u in 5mins..