Re: need advise...cant decide abt shadi:(
Hmmm.. I haven't read the rest of the replies so I might be repeating something but here are my two cents!
First you say you want to know what should you do and in the next sentence you say you cannot leave him. To me it seems like you have already decided you cannot leave him and you are going for him. Seems like you are just looking for assurance that things are going to be okay.
Logic and common sense would say don't go for it. He has cheated on you once and he can do it again. It may seem he doesn't respect you and doesn't love you enough. I personally think he does love you but takes you for granted, because he knows you'll always be there no matter what. I suggest go for it, though love isn't everything, but cheating on you with a minor affair isn't a very big issue either. Many a woman have forgiven bigger things than that and living happily.
Can I ask you why are you in tears because of him most of the time? When you say he ignores you, does that mean he doesn't show up for dates? doesn't call you when he should? etc???
Can I ask how often do you call him? or meet him? I hope you are not being too clingy? Everybody, especially men, need their personal space and clinginess turns them off.
I would say stay with him but don't let him walk all over you. Don't be sort of woman who never says no to her man, no matter what. Men admire women who have a mind of their own and who can show it too. Be strong, don't run after him. Ignore him for a few days, don't call him, and you'll see he'll call you himself! :) Trust me it works!!!!!