Re: Need Advice- Wife Issues
that’s true. seen quite a few such cases. the behavior shown by the OP’s wife is typical of what many women do right after marriage. doubt she will ever change, or even if she does, it would be just for show … not necessarily changing into a mature married person who sincerely tries to strike a balance between the two families.
in my experience, the effort to detach the husband from his family starts from day one. it usually starts by in-laws showering tons of attention & love on the guy while making a conscious effort to shut out his family. then there is scheduling of a lot of dawats / events at wife’s parents’ house, where everyone from her side is present but husband’s parents are ignored. it remains all nice and dandy if the husband goes along with that theme of events but if he objects then obviously it causes friction. i dont think these things ever improve really …