Need advice...from guys only (women stay out)

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You have only one option, NomiCA. Go on the run.
Run, Nomi, run.

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Are you a Pakistani for sure ?

Jesus I thought you are a grown up man Nomi - you disappointed me unless you opened this thread for fun:)

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that sounds like i have heard this before.

heres what you do.

ignore her.
block her on msn
change ur no/can u block her no?

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:hehe: the lengths some men go to make a quick escape from a girl getting attached to them. It’s comical, especially the one with faking his own death :smack: it’s so chandler-esque to do that

don’t mess with her emotions or use her for your own selfish pleasure/entertainment…make it quick and honest/like ripping off a band-aid, it hurts less. give her that much respect sirji

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Lol, he's not Forrest Gump.

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I said to Junneh
Why don't you love me Junneh
I know what love is

/haikumode

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Liar Liar, chaddis on fire!!

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Wow talk about character assassination :rolleyes: Why do these ladies have such a personal hardon against this guy?

As for the question, she is obviously a bollywood delusional type, just shut her out.

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oh…now i can fully understand your new signature.:cb:

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tell her u r thinking about changing your gender

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ok....so i thought i would follow the advice of 'some' about telling straight forward and hoping for closure....

so i told her that it can't work out and no need to contact me again n all that stuff...

now she gone even more crazier.......

she said she gonna cut herself....and that i should not break contact etc...

now should i pay attention to whatever she is saying or follow the 'total ignore' option??

The questions are for those who advised me to talk it out and be straightforward...

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^:smack: cutting herself?? that’s so bollywoodesque :bummer:

first question- is this a troll thread, is this really happening to you or are you making it up?

Nomi, so you never said anything to her that would make her think that you wanted something more? think really hard. i would wait for some of the other members but even if you’re scared, i would tell her parents about it, that there is no future between you and their daughter, that you only meant for it to be a casual friendship but she somehow read it as something more and when you tried to tell that to her she started becoming suicidal.

don’t you have any counselor friends from your university that you can ask about this. if she’s suicidal then i would ask a professional what to do and if this is a troll thread then…why did i waste my time writing all that :hinna:

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You know what.....i know most of u aren't going to believe it but there really are people like that.....this is one instance where I believe nomi 100%...believe me I've been there...some people are just #$&*ing psychos!

trust me dude she ain't gonna commit suicide....she values her own life far more than that, shes just pissed that her ego was shattered.

That and, can u go to your parents/her parents?

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She meant cutting wrists something..not suicide....that filmi girls usually make tiny cuts (if they do)...so that they can make a show without actually any chance of dying...:D

umm....let me think....technically its not a troll thread...

i might have..but it was made clear to her very soon that there is no future..

so what did u do? ignore completely mode?

why involve parents??

I am thinking i should give her a hard talk.....like scream at the top of my lungs...and make it brutal as hell......sound like a good idea??

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Look standard rule. When it comes to women never take a girl's advice. What did we - all the men - say? Burn you bridges. Do so now.

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^i know that man!! look at the title again:D

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Sounds like a standard bollywood bitten psychopath. Just shut her out man, tell her go get bent or something.

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I left the ****ing country :hehe:

Cz they kicked me out of the country :teary1:

No in all seriousness, ignoring helped.

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I take offense to that. Im the only girl who didn't bash nomi for this. Why? BECAUSE I KNOW PPL CAN BE PSYCHOS.

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there are always exceptions…fortunately…:smiley:

and you are the only girl that thinks the others were all bashing me :hayaa: :jano: