need advice for myself....

[Mirch]

Re: need advice for myself…

@Lady_Gaga

What i can see is that he has created a place in your heart by telling that ‘honest’ story from the past. I very much believe that this story is made up so you can say oh he is so honest and sincere to me. Do not make this big decision of life based on what he told you, do not fall for him in just one month because of his sweet talk. Involve ur families and discuss with ur parents.

I feel that way too.

@sweet_iez55

hey guys thanks 4 ur input, well to update you all, its another month over successfully with smooth relation with him, mostly on calls, n rarely on web cam n internet, but we dont talk daily, i make sure to keep a distance still…

3-4 days back he was asking my suggestion abt bringing his mother to my home to meet my mom, he was asking is it appropriate to come along with his mother right away in 1st meeting or shud he come alone to meet my mom 1st alone??, i suggested him to meet my mom 1st alone, give ur intro,tell her abt ur intentions, n then if she agrees u can come along with ur mother, it might be a decent way, what u guys think???

another thing what my mother says abt him is that she dont want me to go all the way to America after marriage, she basically dont like States, she want me t get married in pak or in near by gulf countries… as she assumes that ppl from states dont usually visit yearly, let c what happens next…

Ask him to bring his mother for the first meeting. It is important that her mother agrees with his decision .