Re: Need Advice .. Bride to Be with SIL issues !
Families can only get away with it because women like the OP allow them to. How many times have we seen girls/women on this forum ignoring reason and advice and going ahead with the marriage despite all the red flags. This is not even a situation where the OP is being pressured to marry, yet some women willfully decide to enter these kind of situations and then come back one month later with the exact same problems and then wonder why?
I’m not justifying the actions or behaviour of these families but it takes two to tango.