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yes i am...and offcourse its easy. Go up to her say "Hi I am anil"
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She knows who I am; we've had very brief conversations (she asked me how I did on an exam to which I replied 82.5% and she's like "yea, everyone's getting that mark"). This is when we were taking the same class.
P.S. I never congratulated you on your graduation this spring; CONGRATS :).
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Oh thank you, thats so nice of you to remember.
Well thats even better that she once initiated a convo, why cant you come up wit something clever like that? Maybe ask her to study together?
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Well thats even better that she once initiated a convo, why cant you come up wit something clever like that? Maybe ask her to study together?
My mind went blank at that moment :( . As much as I hate to admit this, I'm a coward when it comes to these things. I don't think I could gather the courage to ask her to study with me.
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Then you are gonna have to sit there and wait until she hands you her wedding card. Prepare yourself for that day :p
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Just read your jounal entry. Hope you're feeling better.
Before I graduate, I'll lay the ground work, inshAllah.
You should probably hit the sack now; inshAllah we'll discuss somemore tomorrow.
Shaba Khair.
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What I find most disturbing about this thread is that Anil, you have these built up expectations based on what you have just HEARD about the girl. In your mind she has certainly personality traits, she doesn't pray, isn't religious, likes doing certain things, all based on what you've HEARD.
I would suggest that you grow a pair, go talk to her, and really find out what she's like. Looks shouldn't combined with what you've HEARD about her is absolutely unacceptable criteria for marriage. Like others have said here, you are young and clearly not ready for marriage.
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My friends have suggested the same thing; but I'm not ready to proclaim, just yet, that I love her.
Here's a thought, and maybe I'm repeating what others have said but in all honesty and seriousness, I do not feel that YOU specifically can/will find "true love" until after you marry someone. You can like the girl (any girl, not this one specifically), feel affectionate towards her,but I think for you--and alot of others--true love cannot happen until after marriage. Love is not a cliche, it only becomes a cliche when guys (not necessarily you) claim to be love with a girl based purely on superficial qualities (the way she looks, who she hangs out with and talks to and whether they see her praying or not). Those things, looks, their social status, what they're studying and whether htey want to work, those do not make up love. It's something else entirel. You're just infatuated. If you really want something real to happen, talk to her. I know its nerve wracking and easier said than done but nothing worthwhile ever comes easy :)
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^ There's a lot of truth to what you've said, Sara. I agree that I probably won't find "true love" until after marriage.
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I’ll be the first one to admit I’m not ready for marriage. But when I do think about getting married, my thoughts go straight to her. 
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Anil dear, it seems to me that you have come across a girl who fulfils your idea of what an ideal wife should look like...
Now you need to speak to her and find out if she also thinks the way you would hope your future wife would think
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It may seems difficult to pluck up the courage to talk to her...and you don't need to admit your undying love to her straight away...it might scare her off
I would suggest that you try to find mutual friends/interests and approach the situation that way as simply another guy at uni - once you've established what kind of a person she really is...you can then begin to make a decision about something as important as marriage...
Don't fret over the intricacies of the situation - simply find out if you get along
good luck!
:)
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I want more!!!!
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@ dope
you should just get her email id (from mutual friend), add her to your msn and go from there… simple enough? 
wish you best of luck!!
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lol@dope
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Brilliant. A classic. :omg: