Nazar - Hiding your pregnancy

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Re: Nazar - Hiding your pregnancy

@Sara516

've heard the same for girls about to get married soon, like after hte mayyoun, they shouldn’t be roaming about town or anything…well that was what my mother tld me when I was gettign married!

any way, I told everyone asap. And I kind of regretted it because I did miscarry eventually and not only was it painful ti was kind of awkward…even up to just a few months ago it was quite awkward to have to explain to someone what happened.

By teh way, if you plan on keeping it secret, what do you do when someone asks you quite bluntly if you’re pregnant???

I guess if someone is direct enough to ask you then I wouldn’t lie to them but I would let them know that we are not sharing this information with anyone but immediate family right now so please keep it to themselves until a formal announcement happens. Obviously you cannot control things to the n’th degree and people who want to talk still will but at least you will not have been shouting it from the rooftops.

@devilish_angel

I have seen in my in laws for every little thing they l say oh nazar lag gai chalo g nazar utaro n there comes the red chillies I m so pissed off bc of this tht now I don’t believe in it even if flight got cancelled tu g nazar lag gai

I guess it depend on how you were brought up and what the general thought process was there. We do believe that nazar exists but we do not attribute every little change in plans to it. That would be quite impractical na?

@diamond321

ammi burn mirchain to utaro nazar of Guriya and they don’t give smell and the amazing thing if she is crying or in pain it immediately subsides after the burning of mirch

This is precisely how it happened with my daughter and my chachi. I don’t know if it was effective in removing the nazar or that the child is so fascinated by being the center of attention and ritual and she stops crying… Allah knows best. The thing is that while chachi would be going up and down and around her with the mirchain on the tinka I would be reading my surahs and ayat-ul-kursi and phoonking on the kid… hehehee.