Nashukri Desi Ladies.....

Ashy2010 · May 9, 2011, 6:17pm

Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies…

alright i have to disagree here. Women, as some of the L1ians consider here are not monsrtous or habitual whinners or vamps. Its their men who do not have tacts and guts to deal with them. Women always depend on and look forward to the men folk of the family (it be fathers, husbands, sons, brothers) for support and strength and understanding. And when they find it absent obviously they will have ot vent and let their feeling out which you conveniently call whinning all the time. If issues are resolved there is no need of whines and all that. Obviously im not generalizing here, there is a small fraction of our society which has adopted this whinning thing as a habit and a means to blackmail but NOT EVERY WOMAN whines habitually and in order to blackmail.

I think males don’t have that much tolerance and bardasht to listen to all the story telling which we women are very much comfortable with, as males are programmed by nature like that. We cannot expect them to focus on issues for too long whereas we women have tendencies to carry on with issues for many days and months. So I guess its because of lower concentration levels of men which make women think that men don’t have guts to deal with them.

We should understand that men are not 100% capable of handling us well (the way we want them to handle us) and they just tend to mishandle us, which leads to all the complaining since women think its easier to complain than to take practical steps towards solution (for which again they will need men’s support and cooperation). Its better to understand each others weaknesses and work together and only then men and women can work towards successful relationships.