Why are desi ladies so much nashukri?? even in the best of circumstances they have to whine about something…and complain complain that they don’t have this or that…can’t they see that there are others who don’t even have a fraction of good things that they have…
why so much of it??
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I wonder as well. I have seen girls who have everything.. career, education, loving husband or fiancee but still they complain complain and complain. Sometimes i feel Allah gives them more and more who complains all the time. People who struggle in their life... don't complain and they don't get anything in return except few more problems.
p.s. just a thought ...... this things are running in my mind since morning today
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It has to do with their unrealistic expectations. I blame Disney movies, somewhat Bollywood, and their friends who constantly feed them this you-deserve-better attitude. Whatever good happens in their life, they take it for granted, and focus on what they think they should have had and how people around them should have behaved.
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I agree NomiCA. Maybe because a large fraction of us women are hyper sensitive and pampered and reactionary and exageratting. Oh maybe they have this m isconception about them selves that they are human. It may vary but yes I have not found an angel around in my life.
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becaause they are ladies and they have nothing better to do.
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I wonder as well. I have seen girls who have everything.. career, education, loving husband or fiancee but still they complain complain and complain. Sometimes i feel Allah gives them more and more who complains all the time. People who struggle in their life... don't complain and they don't get anything in return except few more problems.
p.s. just a thought ...... this things are running in my mind since morning today
Complaining again !
Why are desi ladies so much nashukri?? even in the best of circumstances they have to whine about something.....and complain complain that they don't have this or that.......can't they see that there are others who don't even have a fraction of good things that they have....
why so much of it??
Find me the answer please.
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Here is my analysis of constant complaining of desi ladies :D
Desi ladies usually don't complain about NOT having this and that. They won't be complaining openly about not having a particular brand of watch/ jewellery etc (this type of complaints are exclusively for their husbands). Their complaining is mostly about the circumstances and situations. Us ne ye keh dia, us ne wo ker dia etc etc.
Desi ladies have some inbuilt defects that they just don't seem to be happy with whatever they have, always being jealous with others for what others have and they don't have and even for whatever others have while they also have it. Desi ladies also think that by being mazloom, they can better get the attention/ extra love and care of their husbands, in-laws, children, families and friends and therefore they always seem to be finding things which they can use to declare themselves MAZLOOM in the eyes of their loved ones.
By being mazloom and always complaining, they can also save themselves from a lot of responsibilities and duties which they would otherwise be expected to perform because everyone would expect a perfectly happy and satisfied lady to be participative and cooperative and be there for everyone. Constant complaining has become fashion and trend for desi ladies who think this is the only way they can be a subject of discussion in gatherings and they don't want to feel left out when some other lady complains about her in-laws/ husband etc. This shows that a lady is of substance who is struggling in her life and is working hard for example to save her marriage and/ or adjusting with her in-laws and apparently expecting credit to have so much patience and tolerance in continuing their tough lives.
Desi ladies have unreasonable expectations from everyone (family, husband, in-laws, children, friends, colleagues etc) that they are always successful in finding faults in others when others don't meet their 'expectations' all the time. For desi ladies, all their relationships should have been coming from heavens but they would still find something to complain.
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Complaining again !
Find me the answer please.
your avatar is hilarious. hehe
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R U TAlking about me.....humphhhhh
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i agree. to an extent.
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I think you are a man…
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Desi girls are nashukri when they are not mature ;).... We are thankful to ALLAH...
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I am an analyst and try to analyse things without any bias 
Women are like that and we are sooo proud of it 
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I wonder why desi men are such babies...its like they cant seem to grow a pair and constantly follow their moms around like puppies while their own families suffer.
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why are the desi men so complaining and bee jamalo type 
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hats off ma lady 
so, moniCA 
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Why can't we have NORMAL (non-complaining, logical, non-emotional, practical) desi men AND women in this world? Are desis synonymous with being abnormal? :p
We desis are a rare specie in this world I must say :D
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thats not fair 
Its just as simple as that majority of ladies are whinners actually but it gets worse when men turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to them. Obviously what else would they do other than keep on whinning then 
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Didn’t mean to hurt anyone :sid: I am a pakka desi myself
Is it that men turn blind eye and deaf ear and then women start whining OR that men turn blind eye and deaf ear because of women’s constant whining (as in constant fights between wives and MILs etc)?
I think there cannot be any generalisation. One thing leads to another and all we get at the end is BADNAAM desis
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its free 