Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies…
Oh oh oh and what about the guys that are always doing beejamalo wali harkatein?
Thats so girly…
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies…
We only have ONE such piece on GS 
Majority of desi men are NOT like that 
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies…
alright i have to disagree here. Women, as some of the L1ians consider here are not monsrtous or habitual whinners or vamps. Its their men who do not have tacts and guts to deal with them. Women always depend on and look forward to the men folk of the family (it be fathers, husbands, sons, brothers) for support and strength and understanding. And when they find it absent obviously they will have ot vent and let their feeling out which you conveniently call whinning all the time. If issues are resolved there is no need of whines and all that. Obviously im not generalizing here, there is a small fraction of our society which has adopted this whinning thing as a habit and a means to blackmail but NOT EVERY WOMAN whines habitually and in order to blackmail.
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies.....
alright i have to disagree here. Women, as some of the L1ians consider here are not monsrtous or habitual whinners or vamps. Its their men who do not have tacts and guts to deal with them. Women always depend on and look forward to the men folk of the family (it be fathers, husbands, sons, brothers) for support and strength and understanding. And when they find it absent obviously they will have ot vent and let their feeling out which you conveniently call whinning all the time. If issues are resolved there is no need of whines and all that. Obviously im not generalizing here, there is a small fraction of our society which has adopted this whinning thing as a habit and a means to blackmail but NOT EVERY WOMAN whines habitually and in order to blackmail.
I think males don't have that much tolerance and bardasht to listen to all the story telling which we women are very much comfortable with, as males are programmed by nature like that. We cannot expect them to focus on issues for too long whereas we women have tendencies to carry on with issues for many days and months. So I guess its because of lower concentration levels of men which make women think that men don't have guts to deal with them.
We should understand that men are not 100% capable of handling us well (the way we want them to handle us) and they just tend to mishandle us, which leads to all the complaining since women think its easier to complain than to take practical steps towards solution (for which again they will need men's support and cooperation). Its better to understand each others weaknesses and work together and only then men and women can work towards successful relationships.
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies.....
kahan bhaag gya Nomi?
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies.....
kahan bhaag gya Nomi?
Typical beeejamalo character :p
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies.....
^ he will soon be back with another aag lagao thread, dont worry :@:
Ashy, your post projects women folk to be blamed for all this one way or the other. I would like to ask, when men consider themselves so samajhdar and smart why cant they handle women and bring them to terms for the peace of their (both's) life? They are so quick to become indifferent to the family problems which bother their wives and put them off and consequently women become sure that men are not going to understand them and cooperate. Everyone wants support and cooperation. Women do support their husbands best by taking care of men's home, family and everything. In return, if what only they want is attention and concentration, whats so bad in it? I think a husband can be a best friend just as a wife can be. What I have observed in our society is that men, only with the supply of physical and financial requirements think that fine they are done. When they tend to ignore women's emotional requirement its then the dispute rises.
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies…
…please start a new thread…
So u mean its normal female behaviour to do beejamalo-pun???
I am here…
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies.....
I am here....:D
so jao. it's midnight.
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies…
Beejamalo is male or female? Khud hi batao.
Tawba tawba…aaj kal ke larkay…
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies.....
I see lot of beejamalo males here on GS, they are whining all the time, in almost every thread.
Re: Nashukri Desi Ladies.....
^ he will soon be back with another aag lagao thread, dont worry :@:
Ashy, your post projects women folk to be blamed for all this one way or the other. I would like to ask, when men consider themselves so samajhdar and smart why cant they handle women and bring them to terms for the peace of their (both's) life? They are so quick to become indifferent to the family problems which bother their wives and put them off and consequently women become sure that men are not going to understand them and cooperate. Everyone wants support and cooperation. Women do support their husbands best by taking care of men's home, family and everything. In return, if what only they want is attention and concentration, whats so bad in it? I think a husband can be a best friend just as a wife can be. What I have observed in our society is that men, only with the supply of physical and financial requirements think that fine they are done. When they tend to ignore women's emotional requirement its then the dispute rises.
What I feel is that men are more practical and tend to ignore things and issues which are important to women. Besides, they cannot concentrate for too long as they don't have the stamina. In short, men don't see the things the way which we tend to see and there is difference in our perspective which is obviously because of the way we are programmed by nature. If men were more programmed like us, there could have been fewer problems.
I believe that women should take matters in their own hands and solve the issues ourselves rather than just complaining. Women are equally intelligent and can manage well with proper tactic and wisdom. We should not expect men to be always there for us but it would be great if we have their support anhd cooperation. We would be lucky if we are also provided with emotional support by men.