Re: Nano vs. dado
I don’t think it’s the case for every woman. My MIL (although evil towards me) will fly over to my Devrani’s house every few months to take care of that DIL, her 2 kids, cook, and clean while this DIL’s husband is out of town. On the other hand, my Devrani’s mother hasn’t ever visited her daughter even though the Daughter complains in person and on social media that she is dying taking care of the children and needs help.
As far as I can see and my Devrani has admitted, her MIL takes better care of her children than her own Mother. And the MIL also cooks and cleans for the DIL, which she doesn’t do for herself and her husband.
And I know that the same woman would not be nice to my kids. She treats the other DIL like a princess and me like chopped liver. It has to do with the fact that she likes the first DIL and doesn’t like me because she wanted her son to marry someone she chose.