Re: Nano vs. dado
This.
Although I kind of agree with the OP as well. I have amazing memories of my nani…she was awesome…may Allah swt rest her soul in peace. There’s no way any of us could have been the way we are without her…plainly speaking. On the other hand, even though I love my dadi very much, she just didn’t have that closeness with us. She cares more for her daughters’ kids than her sons’. I love her because she’s my dadi but not because I’ve got any memories with her. Do I hold it against her? Nope.
She’s not shrugging off her responsibility. She’s noticing the differences.