I think a good girl/dulhan/bahoo is who should take responbelity of her new house from next morning of wedding,
If inlaws are treating her like a princess then she is lucky and she should show them more care, love and respect.
Inlaws Mai izzat khud karwani parwati hai larki ko,sooner or later ghar ke kaam kaaj Ki zimedari Uspe ani hai so it's better if she start it with her own wish before that anyone tell her what to do.or u have to do this and that.
iskaa matlab yeh bhii nahiiN k ghar ke baaqii log haath paauuN meN mehndii lagvaa kar baiTh jaayeN...dulhan aayii hai koii naukaraanii to nahiiN :)