nai dulhan

[muqawwee123]

Re: nai dulhan

@STA

it would different case. but what are the nakhray?

nashta bana ke do.. bartan dhone main help karo.. bache ki nappy change kardo... etc, etc

[STA]

Re: nai dulhan

@muqawwee123

means its a trap jis ke baad miyan ko bivi se lehsan aur maslae ki boo aana shroo ho jati hai

lol. but that is what real life is. they can saj sanwar kay beth sakti hain in the evening. (ref: your previous thread on saji howy aurton par)

[muqawwee123]

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@Little Princess

my csn sisters best frnd got married recently and right the next day her hubby told her..mujhey bahir ka khana nahi pasand…tum pakao ya mai paka longa
zahir se baat hai bivi nahi kahaygi k tum pakao

But he offered it na… kabhi jab uska mood na ho to keh sakti hai ke aap pakao.. iss main bura kia hai.. but not on daily basis

[STA]

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@muqawwee123

nashta bana ke do.. bartan dhone main help karo.. bache ki nappy change kardo… etc, etc

acha, they will surely working women. and husband has adopted to select home chores.

[muqawwee123]

Re: nai dulhan

@STA

lol. but that is what real life is. they can saj sanwar kay beth sakti hain in the evening. (ref: your previous thread on saji howy aurton par)

which thread I did on saji hui ladies

BTW idea bura nahi, if I didn’t clean my hands on it

[LP]

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@muqawwee123

nashta bana ke do.. bartan dhone main help karo.. bache ki nappy change kardo… etc, etc

minus the nashta…some men do really help…

@muqawwee123

But he offered it na… kabhi jab uska mood na ho to keh sakti hai ke aap pakao.. iss main bura kia hai.. but not on daily basis

shadi ke dosrey din who says that

[LP]

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@STA

acha, they will surely working women. and husband has adopted to select home chores.

cant they just get a maid to do all tht

[muqawwee123]

Re: nai dulhan

@STA

acha, they will surely working women. and husband has adopted to select home chores.

No. Thats not part of our society till yet. Ghar sanbhalan aurat ka kaam hai

[muqawwee123]

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@Little Princess

minus the nashta…some men do really help…

shadi ke dosrey din who says that

shadi ke ddosre din to laRki ke maike wale khana bhejte hain.. kahin unhon ne aap ko to ye kaam nahin sonpa tha?

[STA]

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@muqawwee123

No. Thats not part of our society till yet. Ghar sanbhalan aurat ka kaam hai

I was also trying to say it in different words. You got it.

[LP]

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@muqawwee123

shadi ke ddosre din to laRki ke maike wale khana bhejte hain.. kahin unhon ne aap ko to ye kaam nahin sonpa tha?

the girl and teh guy stay alone…relatives are back home…so

[muqawwee123]

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@Little Princess

the girl and teh guy stay alone...relatives are back home...so

So what did she expect from him? I mean did she wanted him to cook for her?

[KKF]

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inhiiN choNchloN se Khaf zadah ho kar sochtaa huN k maiN koii** 'puraanii dulhan'** laauuN :D

[Huma_1]

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I won’t mind cooking but he has to help out with ghar k kaam too… If I’m cooking, he’s washing the dishes. If I’m doing the laundry, he’s ironing. If I’m mopping, he’s vacuuming… and so on. I’m sure mardon ka ego nahin hurt hoga is se especially if husband and wife both are working full time, it’s only fair that they divide the house chores between them equally.

I don’t expect to be living like a princess, he shouldn’t be expecting to be some badshah either.

[KKF]

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@Huma

I won’t mind cooking but he has to help out with ghar k kaam too… If I’m cooking, he’s washing the dishes. If I’m doing the laundry, he’s ironing. If I’m mopping, he’s vacuuming… and so on. I’m sure mardon ka ego nahin hurt hoga is se especially if husband and wife both are working full time, it’s only fair that they divide the house chores between them equally.

I don’t expect to be living like a princess, he shouldn’t be expecting to be some badshah either.

how about reversing the chores? why do you have to pic the harder job? kia Khayaal hai? jab ooNT pahaaR ke neeche aayegaa to usko apnii daraazii e qad kaa aHsaas hogaa…use pataa chalegaa k aurat kaa kaam ghar pe kitnaa mushkil hotaa hai. hai na?

[Huma_1]

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Oh he'll get the harder jobs too like cleaning the toilets :@:

[KKF]

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@Huma

Oh he’ll get the harder jobs too like cleaning the toilets

aise kaam jo aurat apne husband se karvaayegii uskii shaadii hii nahiiN hogii, inshaa Allah! ab mard log jo investigators hire karte haiN vo yeh sab pataa karte haiN k aurat ke ulterior motives kia haiN shaadii ke! hehe

[Huma_1]

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Aise kaam matlab? Koi chota nahin ho jata safayi kar k.

[KKF]

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@Huma

Aise kaam matlab? Koi chota nahin ho jata safayi kar k.

chhoTaa to nahiiN ho jaataa par banda thak to jaataa hai…aur it’s a mental torture for a man to clean toilet at home!

[Kinzz]

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@STA

In our society, new brides are usually treated like princess and first few weeks are tension free. But after certain time, let say one month, charge of kitchen activities is transfered by asking them to make sweet dish/kher. I think it is sweet way of realization of their real work. what would you say and what does happen in your family.

I think a good girl/dulhan/bahoo is who should take responbelity of her new house from next morning of wedding,
If inlaws are treating her like a princess then she is lucky and she should show them more care, love and respect.
Inlaws Mai izzat khud karwani parwati hai larki ko,sooner or later ghar ke kaam kaaj Ki zimedari Uspe ani hai so it’s better if she start it with her own wish before that anyone tell her what to do.or u have to do this and that.