isn't posting all this a sort of backbiting?
You don't live with them. just 'bardasht' them when you visit.... that's the least you can do.
It doesn't feel right when one is cribbing about a mother.... however bad the situation is. Perhaps its just me.
Balli Kaka,
Do we know the name of PCG........do we know what she looks like? If she were to pass on the streets, would we know it's her? NO.......this is an anonymous forum. If you consider this to be backbiting...........then would you also consider all the other threads in the Life and Relationship forum to be "backbiting" as well? And if it's bad to do the backbiting........it's also bad to listen to it. SO.........would that ALSO make YOU....Oh Balli Kaka......guilty of reading this so-called backbiting?????
Many of the people here are trying to analyze the problem and offer solutions. We don't even know PCG or her family well enough to even form an opinion. Discussing a situation with the intention to GET HELP is not backbiting. In a life and relationships forum...........what else would one talk about except for life/relationship experience right? It's silly to assume that all life/relo experiences will be laa dee daa happy and that nobody will have any concerns to talk about. What should we talk about in this forum then? The weather?