An arranged marriage, if done properly, has a very high success rate. All this convenient Islamic blah-blah about Hazrat Khadija RA and her proposal to Prophet Muhammad SAW is just selective following. Pick and choose the things in Islam that conform to your lifestyle, and conveniently toss it aside and yell “dont bring Islam into this” when it goes against your lifestyle.
Every girl talks about Hazrat Khadija’s initiative in sending Prophet Muhammad SAW a proposal, but noone talks about any other aspect of her pious life.
As if sending a proposal was the only thing she ever did!