My would-be-hubby???Confusion

[Deeba1234]

@fairywings85

I find it weird how ur ot alowed to talk to the man ur expected to marry and have children with. but some people in our culture are like that..they dont allow this kinda stuff..but in such strict situations there is not much that can be done unfortuanately..maybe u should be firm to ur parents and be open in explaining how u feel and remind them how much of a chnce u will be taking if u marry without getting to meet the guy..speak to ur mother on her own if necessary..and i think if u did talk to him secretly it wouldnt be a big deal if they found out..especially if u decided to marry him

Me too… esp when we can talk to male uni or work colleagues.. it makes no sense whatsoever..

Even if a person’s parents are very strict, what possible harm could it do to talk with elders or a chaperone there?