jalebi u must hav a vast mind dnt limitize urself to the trends its not written anywer tat the bride hasto wear yellow on her mayou and green on the mehndi wear wat u like bring about a change sumtimes they dont come out so bad !! as for the bow tie,it was not at all ment to match me.. i duno about u but im pretty much sick of the usual red or matching wid the brides outfit 'ties' tat guys wear on the valima.. so i suggested it wud look different if my hubby wore a bowtie instead besides u cant go around wearing a bow tie in sumone elses wedding might as well do it at ur own!! he had his own look on the valima unlike the wedding and mehndi wer he had bits of my colour added too:)
actually blue is my favorite color! i just didn't know whether it's 'allowed' to wear on mehndis. because i know some colors are not considered good for certain functions...ex black on shaadi...since i was born here, sometimes i don't know all the pakistani traditions. now that i saw your outfit, i'm thinking to try blue or lavender myself :)