my turmoils begin again. fed.up of myself.

[Paheli00]

Re: my turmoils begin again. fed.up of myself.

@Shak09

I dislike momma’s boys who can’t live without their mummies and grow up but that’s not the case here, he said this before marriage and you knew this would happen, hence he’s not at fault. However also time and time again I see and hear about women too (some even in my extended family) marrying without even considering the consequences. All they see is the glitz and glamour of shaadis and all they care about is OMGZZZZ IMA MARRY OOO THE DRESS THE MENDHI bla bla bla.** And when the REAL hard work starts, well* this *happens **

I’ve seen this happen quite a few times too. Whether its living in a certain location, living with joint family, wife working after marriage etc…plenty of times women are told clearly before marriage what the man expects from his wife. They agree to the conditions and marry him…and then act surprised after marriage that the husband isn’t changing his mind. And of course, at that time the man becomes the bad guy for sticking to the conditions he laid out BEFORE the nikah papers were signed.