Re: My story- dumped by a bangladeshi guy
Not everyone is the same and judgemental.
when i was growing up, all the pakistani men in my family were abusive towarss women, and didnt have any respect. Yes this guy did stalk and pester me into getting into a relationship, but throughout my time with him he treated me with respect we were best friends. His put his family first.
Yes his family turned out to be racist and he had no idea this was gonna happen. I dont blame him. I blame the family for blocking him out for so many years not communicating to him and suddenly telling him how they feel.
He even said to his own mother i tried to tell you so many time about this relarionship but you didnt want to talk to me you ignored me.
i told him from now on communication is key with your family, i could be alot more broken than i am if he used and abused and then left me, so i will always have some respect for him.
They say blood is thicker than water for some. I was willing to make sacrifices to be with him in the end, but he couldnt do it for me.