My Sister's Nikkah Dilemma

[Paheli00]

Re: My Sister’s Nikkah Dilemma

@Iconoclast

If they did not want them to consummate the marriage, they should not have allowed her to spend the weekend, and if she did despite told not to, then you should know , it’s done, no point asking her.

It’s stupid for desis to think that a couple needs to spend the weekend or a night together in order to have sex! If a girl’s parents want to make sure that she is not having sex, then the girl should not be allowed to go out with a guy alone for hours PERIOD. Nikah or not, a couple that wants to have sex can make it happen ANYTIME and ANYPLACE. Sun being out or lack of a bedroom isn’t going to prevent it.