My Sister's Friend

[Hassan007]

Re: My Sister’s Friend

@redvelvet

Hassan Bhai, you must guard your izzat. “S wali Baji”…might be after your virtue.
More seriously (above comment was a joke)…I was wondering the same thing as Soundarya. Why is your sister so against or turned off by the idea of you and her long-time friend getting married? Is it because of the age difference? Or does she not think you both would be compatible? They haven’t talked since then. Why is the thought so repulsive to your sister…that she’d be offended to the point of not talking to her? Of course…it could also be that “S” feels embarrassed (wounded ego) and is not making any effort of communicating with your sister either.

Maybe this girl misconstrued your polite behavior as mutual interest. People can misjudge. If you are interested in her…then consider it. If you’re not interested in her…then don’t get so worked up…just behave normally with her. Your sister has already given S Baji the hint that there is no interest in the rishta…so behaving awkwardly around S…will make things uncomfortable and embarrassing…especially for her.

I am definitely not interested in her although i think my sister got angry because she is being protective. I can’t help being awkward if i were to see her again. But it’s alright, as you said forgive and forget.

@Jaanwar

Wesay Hassan Bond bhai going by the principle of two sides to every story, it takes two to tango. Either you are such a Vin Diesel-Daniel Craig lookalike that the baji just couldn’t resist your hunkiness and completely lost control over herself and jeopardized her friendship with your sister. Or perhaps you have had some tharak for the baji and been giving some mixed vibe. I find it a little hard to believe that out of nowhere just randomly the lady, who knows your sister for good 8 years, is all over you and you are struggling to protect your izzat. Evaluate the situation with a sane mind, consider what actions she might have misinterpreted. And ideally try keeping your eyes in their sockets when you are around these bajis.

Well you see communication with opposite gender i am very confident and straightforward. So it is understandable may be i un-knowingly said something which she S took seriously?. Don’t know.

@Jaanwar

As for the no go area, I have seen so many families where siblings are close and interact freely with each other’s friends. Well to be honest I haven’t seen any cases where siblings strictly do not interact with each other’s friends. Nothing twisted happened to my knowledge. This is the first time I am hearing about a sudden change in niyyat and the intense longing for this innocent guy. Things just don’t add up.

Well lets just wait for Mr. Bond to load up his golden gun and reveal some more ‘facts’.

Oh and I am hoping that his inspiration didn’t come from that drama someone mentioned. I mean its bad enough that you watch these bored housewife dramay

Paki or Indian dramay are not my cup of tea and especially when you are busy professional. Well it could that as someone said, she is feeling lonely? I mean that woman spent so many years getting herself educated and set her career to very high. Now she is facing difficulty looking for a chap i guess??.

@el topo. Call me extreme..extreme chick magnet.