PLAN IS WORKING for the last few days baji has been getting very dressed up and looking good and then giving full attention to saas and child.... also at night she pulled out all of her nighties that she had gotten near the time of her wedding (so they r basically soemthing her husband would enjoy) and put them in a box....husband was confused so baji said that she is going to give them away..they r almost new and i have no need for them...when baji went in the closet bhai emptied the box back into the drawer lol.... then she put oin a plain old tshirt adn pajama pants adn turned off the light and lied down... bhai asked what happned..., she said she is too tired bcuz of all the work she did for saas.... also she has been playing tricks on the saas... when the saas complains about food or chaai or whatever... baji tells the saas to teach her...so saas is doing half of the work lollzzz ...baji is feeling kind of bad but hopefully it wont last long..thanx for all your amazing advice
EXCELLENT!!!! Tell your baji to keep it up, DO NOT GIVE UP!