Re: MY SAAS :( HELP
Amana, I couldnt agree with you more. After she establishes some mutual respect, there will be plenty of opportunitites to be nice and caring. But now is the time to protect your marriage.
Mahiya, your baji needs to regain ownership of her marriage, home and life. She is probably a very nice young girl and does not like to fight or argue. But in these situations, what choice does one have?
It all starts with an attitude change. Her husband has a responsibility towards her to protect her, cherish her and keep her happy. She has a right to this and if its not being given to her on a silver platter, there are other ways to get it. ;-)
I hope things improve for your baji, Inshallah.