My rishta situation (again).....

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Re: My rishta situation (again)…

@Ashy2010

The guy (and for that matter the girl) has the right to consider as many candidates as they like before making the decision. We should give the guy that much allowance if he is looking elsewhere. **He is not committed to Inspiron nor has he said that it is final from his side. He just expressed his liking which can or can be infatuation. **He is not dating inspiron, his behaviour is not unacceptable (besides that **he is making inspiron and her family wait, which is very much normal in an arrange setting). It is inspiron who should understand that guys and their families in an arranged setting do keep on looking for better options (although they may keep someone in reserve and make them wait). **

Better to keep the contact minimum from your side, just be on the receiving end. Let your dad call him if he feels like doing it. And keep on looking at other proposals. Keep your expectations as low as possible from that guy. His polite and happy talks may merely be just his nature which you might be taking as signs of his interest.

@inspiron

Yes i completely understand what your saying it makes sense.

You see this is a first for me, ive never experienced it before and even though i have alot of family they are mainly in pakistan so ive never seen it.

Im starting to understand this now.

I havent contacted him at all (since my how are you text on wednesday) and i will wait for him to contact me first if he wishes to do so.

The rest ive left upto my dad who said he might call this weekend..

I didnt go home this weekend so i dont know if my dad has or not, will call home tonight and find out!

thanks for the advice everyone really appreciate it

stayyabali you werent saying that at all.

hopefully, you get it.