Re: My rishta situation (again)…
This is exactly wht I was thinking.
Also, inspiron, u mentioned that he is from a more Americanized family in ur other thread. While ur family is much more conservative. So how is this compatible?
My fiance’s family is much more conservative and it can really make a big difference. Like when they brought the rishta… We said yes after a month. Until then, they were waiting. I really think that the guy’s side should be the one waiting for an answer and not the other way around. But I really dont know.. thts just the way all my rishta meetings happened. They would come and we would say no withing a few days. However, with my fiance we didnt say no or yes for a month. Also, when we said yes, they wanted to know the wedding date.. my mom was like “we wanna get them engaged first and then talk about marriage after a few months”.
Soo at the pace ur freaking out.. it just seems too much.
just keep looking at potential rishtas and if they are interested, they will come talk to ur dad. I dont c why ur dad is directly talking to the guy. He should be talking to his parents. It just seems weird tht the guy is doing all his rishta stuff by himself. If his parents are involved in the rishta process and came to ur house then ur dad should be in touch with his parents, not him. Also, I thought ur dad just wanted him to call so u guys could get to know each other… he called, so now what is the problem? Just get to know him and if he is still interested, then u guys can go from there.
This is the best advice u will get inspiron… just keep ur options open… hope for the best but expect the worst. DOnt get so vulnerable so quick. Just keep living the way u were before all this and if it’s ment to be then it will happen. Stop wasting ur time and energy on him and if he’s really into u then he will show it.
hahahha soo many cliche’s all packed in one paragraph. sigh