My Rishta demands

[zobia]

Re: My Rishta demands

@soni27

good luck zobia .. i hope u get who u want ..

keep an open mind n heart

thank you. really need it.

@lafuriaroja

I kinda get why zobias doing this, yes typically resumes are applied to jobs and not mariages but in an arranged marriage where you don’t know a person , you do sort of have to treat the initial stages like a job application. I mean if she has no requirements and just meets anyone who asks for her rishta she could easily have 100 s based on her eligibility. My uncle had a pretty set criteria and even then he looked at about 60-70 girls in a period of two years, simultaneously meeting them, talking to them etc. Don’t know how he did it always sounded exhausting and confusing to me. So there should be some way to narrow down the search from the get go so you don’t have to meet with a gazillion people.

I think your criteria seems fine maybe just make it more general instead of so specific ie shareef, Well educated, tall and enthusiastic about improving himself in accordance to Islam. And then maybe look at every potential suitor on a case by case basis.

Best of luck!

Yes…atleast someone understood what really i am going for. I really appreciate you words. thanks

@Sahar02

^it’s good to have criteria. But my comments are referring to to the fact that maybe they need to be reprioritized.

I dont want to hurt anyone. and if i priortize every single thing then it wont gonna take me anywhere. besides its not just me…other party also asks my qualifications, age, weight etc.

@EDAL

ROFLMAO.

that ain’t even a IM language dude.
but glad to know someone got a good laugh on others expense.