Re: My Relationship With Wife
I have talked to her about this, but I feel she doesn't believe me. I feel she doesn't like to be mistaken wants to be 110% all the time. We are all wrong at times and I feel someone who ownes up to being wrong or possibly wrong I hold them in high status from an Islamic perspective its a quality of a believer.
I don't know about the Indian sub-continent, but in the western world we have a saying 'it's not what you say its how you say it' which has a major impact in building relationships in any sector of social life.
Some examples are:-
Disability in the UK
Uncleanness/Hygiene
Feelings/emotions between family and outer family
Islam in the UK
I could go on and on into more detail, but I feel like I am hitting a brick wall when conveying to me misses that we are genuinely clean people, we have emotions within our families it maybe not too apart as you have only been in the UK for 2 months. Islam is more practical in the UK more facilities than Pakistan.
If anyone could give me some advice if they or know someone in a similar situation it would be appreciated.
Thx.