Agree. What other answer were you looking for, Diwana? You could end the marriage for this reason.....but what guarantee is there that the next partner will be different?
Not looking for a preconcieved answer.
In reality no one answer will be the best answer.
It is just an exercise to stimulate people to do something out of routine and get out of so called ritual acts in bed...
People meet, one night stand...wham bam.....Thank you mam.......More exciting for these people.
People marry, years pass by. They spend the night ocassionally. Wham bam........Thank you mother of my children.......... Not so exciting anymore.
It is just an exercise to stimulate people to do something out of routine and get out of so called ritual acts in bed...
People meet, one night stand...wham bam.....Thank you mam.......More exciting for these people.
People marry, years pass by. They spend the night ocassionally. Wham bam........Thank you mother of my children.......... Not so exciting anymore.
Married coupes have to find ways to bring the spark back into their relationship.
You're giving a different reason here (the monotonous sex life in a marriage).
Earlier you mentioned another reason.....being uptight due to religious reasons. I'm wondering if religion could be used to make the person feel more comfortable.
What if the problem is with the more adventurous partner? What if that partner is overconfident about their abilities......and what he/she thinks is great fails to do anything at all for the other person?
I think in the beginning every partener is shy but after sometime there will be no shyness …
I think ur question should be “what u’ll do if ur partner is shy in bed?” then u can get more reviews and tips
But seriously if one is shy or inhibited it becomes easier over time, because the act itself is rather intimate that after a few rounds around the merry-go-round people shed their inhabitions with the person they are married to or love.
Married coupes have to find ways to bring the spark back into their relationship.
Yes. Trust me I did not make things up.
Married people do get to the point of silly routine. And most of them keep denying it...:D
The reasons could be:
He is more interested in or dreaming of more attracive women at work or
she is just getting too insensitive to his needs or getting too confident that he is just a bald big tummy dude and will not find a "chick" anyway.
Lo and behold! She gets surprised one day.
You're giving a different reason here (the monotonous sex life in a marriage).
Earlier you mentioned another reason.....being uptight due to religious reasons. I'm wondering if religion could be used to make the person feel more comfortable.
What if the problem is with the more adventurous partner? What if that partner is overconfident about their abilities......and what he/she thinks is great fails to do anything at all for the other person?
Really? I did include religion as a factor too. Regardless what the reason is..being too shy and refusing to meet the needs of the partner is not a good idea.
Last paragraph of yours need a little clarification. Don't want to assume what you meant. Oh I see.
You wanted to blame on the adventurous partner. Fair enough. This is where communication in hidden way works. :)
P.S. Never tell the partner verbally what you need. ;)
Yes. *Trust me I did not make things up.
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Married people do get to the point of silly routine. And most of them keep denying it...:D
The reasons could be:
He is more interested in or dreaming of more attracive women at work or
she is just getting too insensitive to his needs or getting too confident that he is just a bald big tummy dude and will not find a "chick" anyway.
Lo and behold! She gets surprised one day.
Really? I did include religion as a factor too. Regardless what the reason is..being too shy and refusing to meet the needs of the partner is not a good idea.
Last paragraph of yours need a little clarification. Don't want to assume what you meant. Oh I see.
You wanted to blame on the adventurous partner. Fair enough. This is where communication in hidden way works. :)
P.S. Never tell the partner verbally what you need. ;)
"Trust me?" The issue is not so hard to believe. :p
And, no, I'm not blaming the adventurous partner. Merely putting forth another perspective.
ahista ahista sab shyness khatam ho jati hai ...guaranteed..
Ji pata hai mujhe :p but I am talking about inhibited to use some new ideas and mainly for those who never change or try to learn what other person might be needing.
If not understood by one person and has to be told by other person, then no fun!
wud u believe there r some wicked females WHO PRETEND to be shy in the bed....
"nahi naaa aisay kero mujhay sharum ati hai" and all that BS! whereas some men DO enjoy such comments and on the other hand we have some genuine cases.... which are to be honest too boring ;)
then u can get more reviews and tips 
