Married coupes have to find ways to bring the spark back into their relationship.
You’re giving a different reason here (the monotonous sex life in a marriage).
Earlier you mentioned another reason…being uptight due to religious reasons. I’m wondering if religion could be used to make the person feel more comfortable.
What if the problem is with the more adventurous partner? What if that partner is overconfident about their abilities…and what he/she thinks is great fails to do anything at all for the other person?
I think in the beginning every partener is shy but after sometime there will be no shyness …
I think ur question should be “what u’ll do if ur partner is shy in bed?” then u can get more reviews and tips
But seriously if one is shy or inhibited it becomes easier over time, because the act itself is rather intimate that after a few rounds around the merry-go-round people shed their inhabitions with the person they are married to or love.
Married people do get to the point of silly routine. And most of them keep denying it…
The reasons could be:
He is more interested in or dreaming of more attracive women at work or
she is just getting too insensitive to his needs or getting too confident that he is just a bald big tummy dude and will not find a “chick” anyway.
Lo and behold! She gets surprised one day.
Really? I did include religion as a factor too. Regardless what the reason is..being too shy and refusing to meet the needs of the partner is not a good idea.
Last paragraph of yours need a little clarification. Don’t want to assume what you meant. Oh I see.
You wanted to blame on the adventurous partner. Fair enough. This is where communication in hidden way works.
P.S. Never tell the partner verbally what you need.
Ji pata hai mujhe but I am talking about inhibited to use some new ideas and mainly for those who never change or try to learn what other person might be needing.
If not understood by one person and has to be told by other person, then no fun!
wud u believe there r some wicked females WHO PRETEND to be shy in the bed…
“nahi naaa aisay kero mujhay sharum ati hai” and all that BS! whereas some men DO enjoy such comments and on the other hand we have some genuine cases… which are to be honest too boring